Trad Wife, Boss Babe - What Defines a Happy Modern Wife? [EP89]
**Trad Wife. Boss Babe. Stay-at-Home Mom. Career Woman.**
Why does the internet insist women must choose sides?
In this episode, we slow the conversation way down and explore the evolution of the *“trad wife”*—from the 1950s homemaker, to the Superwoman era, to today’s deeply nuanced, choice-driven lives women are actually living.
This is **not** a debate and **not** an attack on either path. It’s a real, lived conversation about:
* Why homemaking and child-rearing are often viewed as “less than”
* How feminism expanded choice… and sometimes created new pressure
* The exhaustion of “doing it all”
* The return of the trad wife—and why it looks very different today
* Career, caregiving, creativity, money, autonomy, and respect
* How to design a life that aligns with *your* values—not social media labels
I also share my personal story after decades as a pilot wife, stay-at-home mom, entrepreneur, and what I now call a **“rad wife”**—forging my own path without losing identity, autonomy, or ambition.
If you’re navigating:
* Marriage or partnership expectations
* Career vs. home (or blending both)
* Money dynamics and independence
* Motherhood, identity, and fulfillment
* Or simply feeling judged for your choices
This episode is for you.
✨ **Inside the episode, you’ll also hear:**
* How to start honest conversations with your current or future spouse
* How to define your priorities (and revisit them as life changes)
* Why routines, flexibility, and creativity matter more than labels
* How to ignore outside noise without burning bridges
At the end of the day, success belongs to the woman who lives life on **her own terms**.
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